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Oct 24 2008

Knowing When To Stop

After thirteen months of blogging for Where We Relax, I’m sorry to say that this is my last post. However, as regular readers of this blog will know, things have been going topsy-turvy in my life and I need to scale back on my work in order to get balanced again. This was a hard decision to make but in order to get more out of life, you do have to know when to let things go. I’m sure this blog’s administrator, John, has more writers lined up to keep Where We Relax going and help you manage your stress.

What’s Wrong?

Three things have lead me to this decision. First off, my migraines have worsened. I need to find out why I’m getting them more often. Secondly, my Mom’s health has worsened. I live with my Mom and am her caretaker and will need to devote more time to her care. And third, my Aunt (my Mom’s sister) has been diagnosed with breast cancer. Since she’s in her 80’s, prognosis for her is not good.

I could continue with this blog, but I wouldn’t be able to give it the attention to detail that you deserve. So I might as well bow out and make sure someone else gives you the attention you deserve.

So, What Have We Learned?

I hope that in these thirteen months of blog posts, you will have learned that stress is not an entirely evil thing, for in small doses stress can help you. Too much of anything is bad for you, even relaxation. Although you may not be able to control your circumstances, you are in complete control of how you react to those circumstances. That does make a big difference in your quality of life.

And I’ve hoped you’ve had a good laugh along the way.

As always, hope this helps.

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  1. Posted October 25, 2008 at 8:52 am | Permalink

    Oh no! I really enjoy your posts and all the great things I learn about relaxing. I hope other writers can step in and help out more.

  2. Posted October 26, 2008 at 2:04 am | Permalink

    Your writings are very informative . i like your blog a lot. It is very sad that you are going to stop blogging.

  3. Posted October 26, 2008 at 5:51 am | Permalink

    Hey, I just came here for the first time and am hit with this sad post :(

    Many people I know who bailed out of blogging for various personal reasons ended up starting smaller more personal and less pressured blogs… writing when they feel like it is kind of like a therapy for them.

    I hope you sort some things out and find the time to get back to blogging.

  4. Posted October 27, 2008 at 10:39 am | Permalink

    your post is really informative loved reading it

  5. Posted October 27, 2008 at 5:09 pm | Permalink

    How very sad news! Some very useful tips along the way! Take care.

  6. Posted November 2, 2008 at 8:56 pm | Permalink

    Wow, I just got here and the person that posted the most is leaving. Well I hope things start to look better for you soon! I really like some of these articles I am finding and I hope to find some other good stuff in the archives.

    Cheers,
    Jeremy

  7. Posted November 3, 2008 at 12:59 am | Permalink

    Hi I too am sorry to see you go - would you be interested in someone taking over from you and not losing anything plus get the credit for your pat work?

    Dr O

  8. Posted November 3, 2008 at 10:43 pm | Permalink

    This is sad news. Hope everything turns out alright with you and your loved ones.

  9. Posted November 3, 2008 at 10:59 pm | Permalink

    I have learned a lot from your blog post and I am sure things will get better as it always did. Take care

  10. Posted November 5, 2008 at 1:15 pm | Permalink

    Too bad :( I really enjoy your posts

  11. Posted November 6, 2008 at 2:42 am | Permalink

    What a shame, i just found this site. lots to catch up on but shame no more to come. i know how demanding on time this stuff can be. good luck.

  12. Posted November 7, 2008 at 8:55 am | Permalink

    Your articles were really lovely. Please dont leave the blog for good. We would love you to post occasionally once in a while, whenever you get the chance. And hope your mom and aut gets well soon. Good wishes for you too.

  13. Posted November 10, 2008 at 1:43 pm | Permalink

    May be you have taken the right decision. I really hope you come across all the issues. Wish a good health to your mom and aunt. Do let us know about their conditions too. Love ya.

  14. Posted November 13, 2008 at 7:28 am | Permalink

    Aww thats a shame there will be no more I have really enjoyed reading your blog thank you :-)

  15. Posted November 13, 2008 at 6:25 pm | Permalink

    I’ve enjoyed reading your posts for about 7 months now, and wish you the best in the future. I’m sorry about your family and I wish them health and happiness. Never say never, maybe you’ll be back on here blogging soon. Take care

  16. Posted November 21, 2008 at 2:51 am | Permalink

    Bad news, this is the second post I read in your blog, and it’s really sad to know that this is your last post.

  17. Posted November 21, 2008 at 4:37 am | Permalink

    Sorry to hear you wont be posting anymore, you will be missed. And thank you for all the articles yu have written. Take care.

  18. Posted November 21, 2008 at 8:42 am | Permalink

    Very interesting and informative post

  19. Posted November 22, 2008 at 8:59 pm | Permalink

    Thanks for all the great information.

  20. Posted November 23, 2008 at 5:38 pm | Permalink

    Sorry to hear you wont be posting anymore, you will be missed. And thank you for all the articles yu have written. Take care.

  21. Posted November 23, 2008 at 5:44 pm | Permalink

    Many people I know who bailed out of blogging for various personal reasons ended up starting smaller more personal and less pressured blogs… writing when they feel like it is kind of like a therapy for them.

    I hope you sort some things out and find the time to get back to blogging.

  22. Posted November 25, 2008 at 9:43 am | Permalink

    I’m sorry to hear life is hitting you so hard. Thanks for the great blog, hopefully you’ll be able to return to it after things settle down. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  23. Posted November 28, 2008 at 3:58 pm | Permalink

    Good blog ! ;)

  24. Posted December 2, 2008 at 1:37 am | Permalink

    Let you be relaxed first. May god bless your family members to recover soon? I think it is our moral duty to take care of parents. Keep happy.

  25. Posted December 3, 2008 at 1:12 pm | Permalink

    Thank for all information , i read ur all article

  26. Posted December 3, 2008 at 1:16 pm | Permalink

    thank u

  27. Posted December 3, 2008 at 3:17 pm | Permalink

    Thanks for health informations.. Your web site interesting and very nice..

  28. Posted December 4, 2008 at 4:37 pm | Permalink

    I really like your post !

  29. Posted December 4, 2008 at 9:52 pm | Permalink

    Best of luck and thanks for the great work.

  30. Posted December 5, 2008 at 2:19 pm | Permalink

    Great information. Thanks for sharing the post. You really did a great job. Thank you for it.

  31. Posted December 8, 2008 at 2:46 pm | Permalink

    sorry to hear, hope you get better

  32. Posted December 10, 2008 at 8:17 am | Permalink

    God bless you. We enjoyed your postings.

  33. Posted December 10, 2008 at 4:20 pm | Permalink

    Sorry to hear that you are taking time off. I really do believe the yoga can help. It has powers that are hard to believe.

  34. Posted December 13, 2008 at 4:09 am | Permalink

    Он, so many bad things! I am very sorry! Take care!

  35. Posted December 13, 2008 at 5:15 pm | Permalink

    Happy holidays and I hope things go better for you in 2009. Any plans to have someone else step in and start writing for you or do you plan to return soon?.

  36. Posted December 14, 2008 at 6:53 pm | Permalink

    I enjoy reading your post. You’re such a good writer. But I was mad reading your first line “After thirteen months of blogging for Where We Relax, I’m sorry to say that this is my last post. ” ..Sorry to know about many bad things you’ve experiencing right now. Get well soon..

    Take care of yourself.

    ♥Happy Holidayys.. ♥

  37. Posted December 14, 2008 at 6:58 pm | Permalink

    Get well soon..

  38. Posted December 15, 2008 at 5:48 am | Permalink

    Sorry to hear that you are taking time off, i just found this site. lots to catch up on but shame no more to come. good luck.

  39. Posted December 15, 2008 at 8:10 pm | Permalink

    Thanks for all the great information and enjoy your time off.

  40. Posted December 15, 2008 at 9:54 pm | Permalink

    It’s been a while since I visited this site (been traveling on business), but what a shock to come back to! Thanks for all the info- it’s been a real life saver!

  41. Posted December 17, 2008 at 5:54 pm | Permalink

    Is this blog done for good? I would love to see it come back. When will you post again?

  42. Posted December 17, 2008 at 10:07 pm | Permalink

    Hope you enjoy the time off and come back to writing!

  43. Posted December 17, 2008 at 10:07 pm | Permalink

    Hope you enjoy the time off - you’ve earned it!

  44. Posted December 17, 2008 at 10:08 pm | Permalink

    Come back and write for us soon!

  45. Posted December 18, 2008 at 9:04 am | Permalink

    I completely agree, balance is the key to life. If you’re constantly working to secure your finances, when do you get a chance to play with your finances? :)

  46. Posted December 18, 2008 at 9:05 am | Permalink

    I hope you can finish writing this blog, I am interested to hear the story behind the inspiration.

  47. Posted December 20, 2008 at 4:17 am | Permalink

    Very sad to hear this. I learned and enjoyed a lot from your writing. I will pray for you sure.

  48. Posted December 20, 2008 at 5:55 am | Permalink

    Ah, I just found your blog and I found your posts very informative. Too bad you won’t be updating your blog anymore. Do you plan on keeping your blog or you will shut it down?

  49. Posted December 23, 2008 at 6:24 am | Permalink

    Hey, it’s too bad that you have stopped blogging. I like most of your posts, and I’ve enjoyed reading them. So I have the same question like “Acai Berry Supreme”. So I think you should keep your blog for public, so every time they visit it, they will remember all your good posts.

  50. Posted December 26, 2008 at 9:31 am | Permalink

    thanks for all of your usefull posts, and i hope everythings get better.

  51. Posted December 29, 2008 at 1:49 am | Permalink

    Please continue your posting. We really need it.

  52. Posted December 29, 2008 at 9:14 pm | Permalink

    Hope to see you come back and blog again. :) It’s another great way to relax…

  53. Posted December 30, 2008 at 5:09 pm | Permalink

    Stress is not an entirely evil thing. As in life you need balance. Obviously being stress 24/7 will kill you. However a little bit here and there can do you good.

    Excellent post

  54. Posted December 31, 2008 at 6:52 am | Permalink

    it’s really a sad news for me. Please keep posting. It will benefit many people.

  55. Posted January 4, 2009 at 10:57 am | Permalink

    That’s unfortunate to hear the bad news! Thanks for all the great posts over the past year, and good luck in the future!

  56. Posted January 5, 2009 at 8:28 am | Permalink

    Please keep posting.

  57. Posted January 5, 2009 at 8:29 am | Permalink

    Yeah, it’s really unfortunate.

  58. Posted January 5, 2009 at 2:06 pm | Permalink

    good thoughts by all.
    Thanks!

  59. Posted January 7, 2009 at 2:50 am | Permalink

    Please keep posting. All your posts were really great to read and totally helpful. I think I would share the same opinion with most of the commenters if I say that you should keep posting. There are so many people who like your blog. So please come back again.

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